About Creative Conflict Resolutions

My partner Neil and I have 40 years of relationship experience between the two of us. We’ve seen clients all over the world, and experienced many different relationship conflicts (including our own).

Because of this experience, both professional and personal, we built Creative Conflict Resolutions on a foundation made up of some very key ingredients. Instead of going into a long history about how we started, we’ll share with you what we’re about and what we aim to help you with.

Ingredient One:

Any relationship is a contract. Two individuals promise to help each other satisfy their needs.

Thus, to support healthier relationships,  we need to help people find new ways to meet their personal needs in ways that will serve them and others in the long term.

 

 

Ingredient Two:

Human beings need interpersonal conflict in order to grow.

Not everyone will tell you this. We fight in order to individualize and keep learning other lessons, but also to get the other person’s attention. It is through relationships that people either rise to the most creative possibilities, or fall into the immobilizing trap of fear and stop growing.

Thus, our task at Creative Conflicts is to teach you to develop nurturing, learning experiences through which you can grow.

 

Ingredient 3:

Hate and anger poison your life, even if the person you hate “deserves it.”

You can even physically harm yourself by harboring that negativity. So, learning to deal with conflict can literally save your life. We aim to help people manage their negative emotions about the world and teach them how to handle the world in a confident, independent and calm way.

 

What we do not do:

Taking sides in any confrontation;
Deciding who is right or who is wrong;
Adjudicating blame;
Rejecting people because their way of expressing pain is aggression.

 

 LIST OF RESOURCES FROM CCR -CREATIVE CONFLICT RESOLUTIONS

WHAT IS CCR ABOUT?

CCR is a research, training and coaching team concerned about turning relationships into happy and healthy heavens for development and nurturance.

WHAT DOES CCR OFFER YOU?

A STRESS FREE RELATIONSHIP!

 

  • Stop emotional distress caused by relationship pain;
  • Prevent confusion, fogging and crazy-making behaviors;
  • Have clarity on your own needs and life purpose;
  • Feel understood, appreciated and fulfilled;
  • Assert your values and increase your self-esteem;
  • Develop as a healthy, happy and creative person.

 

HOW DO WE DO IT?

We offer our own step by step model for stress free healthy relationships that satisfy our deep emotional needs. We apply this model on surveys; ebooks and coaching sessions.

Our model is centered on the research-based connection between personal history and present behaviors, more precisely on the way old attachments are shaping our love connections now;

When clients identify their attachment model using our “Attachment Test,” they can see why and how they carry such a narrow view of “love” into any new bond. This is the model we apply:

 

  1. Clients unconsciously apply this old relationship pattern into their present relationships, reading actual interactions through an old mindset.
  2.  They confuse the present lover with a figure of the past, as a “controlling mother,” or any other parent figure and reenact the old pattern…
  3.  During the coaching sessions we work together to identify those old patterns, as they manifest now in the interaction with spouse;
  4. Once the patterns have been identified, we teach how to replace old patterns with  new bonding interactions, including appreciation and respect.

This is a  step by step change process directed to building a secure/healthy/loving adult attachment.

 

WHAT ARE OUR RESOURCES:

 

A.-CCR KINDLE BOOKS AND OTHER PUBLICATIONS:

 

I.- THE COMPLETE GUIDE TO PASSIVE AGGRESSION:

How to Spot a Passive Aggressive Partner

Closing the Passive Aggressive Defiance Gap

The Silent Marriage: How Passive Aggression Steals Your Happiness

Escaping The Sexless Marriage: A Practical Manual to Bring Back Intimacy and Trust into a Passive Aggressive Marriage

The Art of Living with a Passive Aggressive Husband

Guerrilla Tactics Against Passive Aggression in the Work Place

The 4-Steps-Relief Plan for Passive Aggression

Recovering from Passive Aggression

 

II.- HEALING EMOTIONAL ABUSE

Emotional Abuse:: The Hidden War for Power and Control in Your Relationship

Breaking Free from Emotional Abuse: How to Restore Your Joy by Healing Your Life

Emotionally Abusive Relationships: Your Guide to Healing from Emotional Abuse in Marriage and Divorce

Boosting Your Self Esteem: Be Your Own Heroine!

Healing from Emotional Abuse

When Love Hurts:: Repairing The Pain of Loving an Emotionally Abusive Person

How to Fight Fair in Your Marriage and Win

 

III.- FREE RESOURCES:

a) ebook: “Breaking Free from the Silent Treatment”

b) ebook “How Healthy is your Marriage”?

c) ebook “The Top Five Marriage Builder Skills”

d) ebook “The Man’s Brain Missing Manual”



B.-CCR OFFERS COACHING SERVICES:

http://conflictcoach.me

You can have a Free Coaching Session

 

C.- HOW CCR DELIVERS RESULTS

What do we do?

We offer a rich set of tools for self- and relationship-healing: blogs, coaching, books and videos (all online or by phone).

We offer a unique mix of:

  • Clinical psychology;
  • Conflict resolution;
  • Emotional processing work;
  • With life experiences as therapists, conflict solvers, trainers and conflict coaches.

D.- TESTIMONIALS

http://conflictcoach.me/testimonials/

The project of Creative Conflict Resolutions now is to find and offer you the tools which would transform any relationship from a damaged, unhappy state, into one of reciprocal cooperation.

There is only room for mutual help, understanding, and respect. You can learn to transform any relationship into acceptance, recognition and love.

How can we learn from each other? Only in sharing…would you like to talk back to us?

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